Being Realistic ...

The past few weeks have been very busy, but all very exciting to say the least.

I wanted to post about being a bride and planning the wedding and being realistic. Contrary to most men ... many woman have spent a very long time picturing how their wedding day is going to take shape, thus when it comes time to start actually planning the wedding, their vision can sometimes be a bit larger than life and not so realistic. I'm not saying that your dreams, wishes, desires, wants, must haves etc can't come true, I am just saying that sometimes, dreams must be scaled back a bit ... perhaps you are getting married in July but you've always pictured a winter wonderland theme - you could do it, but it would be a bit out of place; or you've always thought that you'd arrive in style to the ceremony in a Rolls or Bentley, only to find out that there are none within a 500 mile radius of your wedding site. Instead of becoming fixated on one aspect of your desire, try to figure out other ways to incorporate it into what you are able to do in your wedding locale.

Its all about melding the dreams and life together that will produce your most fantastic wedding.